Optimistic Town

You can keep doing multiple wrong things on regular basis, whether it's on purpose or unknowingly.  But in the same process if you tend to get even a single thing right, it can help you: 1. Boost confidence. 2. Provide hope. 3. Feel good about yourself. 4. Find your purpose. 5. Courage to move forward. And the list could just keep going, you are adding more value to your life and purpose with a lot of positivity. You find yourself to be in a better place being a better person. Never give up, good things will always follow. And it can even be the most minimal thing that you are doing to bring positivity in your life, the impact is always present but it just takes time to form into visibility.

You are a strong person, if you are able to influence people and help their lives become a better place. You are a strong person, if you smile, cause only you know what is there deep down, no wonder your smile can someone else happy. You are a strong person, if you vibe alone until you receive the vibes from others. You are a strong person, if you go through tough times alone, and come back stronger. You are a strong person, if someone else is grateful for you. You are a strong person, if you put yourself into tough conditions and imply hard rules on yourself. You are a strong person, when you don't bother about what others think of you and talk about you. You are a strong person, if you ensure consistency to be a part of your life, even when the tough times hit you. You are a strong person, if you are modest and humble. You are a strong person, if you are optimistic.

The way you react is what makes up your mind. Any situation or circumstance that occurs, and you have already reacted to it, ask yourself if the way you reacted was right, and what effect it might have on your present and future. *Never Regret* Reaction already initiated is past, can not be changed, should not be thought. But before you react be wise of your actions. The change might be what you did not want, but you can always react in a positive manner to neutralize. It's tough adjusting to yourself when things don't go your way, but you need to back yourself, it's a hard process but very very beneficial.

There were never any limits to achievements, it's just the society that tells. You can keep doing all those good things, but never stop for that one person, who does not support you or tries to suppress you, our circle of people are not the only people who can judge us there is a world outside too, who can help you appreciate and motivate you to do the right things, people who will notice you one day. But the most important thing is to just never stop working and believing in your self. Remember, that's just one, there is a world with massive number of people, you still gotta face them, you still gotta show them.

Your reaction to any event is what alters your life. It's completely alright to lose, losing/falling is your first step towards your goal, it's really important to accept defeat and bounce back. When you lose you learn all those ways in which things don't work out, but never overlook, whether it is a defeat or victory, the outcome might not be in your hand, but your reaction to the outcome is what changes every dimension. Ain't any harm in losing. The game goes away from your hand, if you don't try to rise back, if you give up. Remember the "NEVER GIVE UP FOLDER"? Install it. Give every ounce of your body if you really want it, not always things will go as you want them to, sometimes they are there to make you better and stronger to deal with all the things on the waiting list.

Stop wasting your time and energy on people who can't contribute well enough to your life, for goodness and betterment. Ask yourself, the goal you are trying to achieve, is it what makes you perfect to be in that state, when you acheive it. To the answer you get, form up successive questions to your answer until you get to the root of your wants. It's important to talk to yourself, so that you understand what is right, and the people you need to get freed from. When you start trying to prove someone wrong, you are mostly unlikely to do what you want or do what is right for you. We need to stop getting biased with what people think about us, and start doing what we want to do. Live to your fulllest at your own will.

It's all about doing the right things in the right way. Wisdom. We are driven by multiple forces in our life, on the basis of multiple factors, which alter our life either knowingly or unknowingly. You need to allow wisdom to take control of your actions, to live a fruitful and intentional life. And where there is intention driven by desire and love, you know what are your capabilities. Wisdom does not allow you to catch it, until and unless you aren't properly in it. Everything seems to be easy on the mouth but not in your actions, and what wisdom does is allow you to make those things a bit comfortable and appreciable. Wisdom and you. Something good will definitely come.

Your progress is for yourself, not for the people to know. It's sometimes important to be or do what you want to regardless of what people around you think of you. Based on a survey, out of approx 40 people, 61 percent of them chose to read others mind over time travel, which clearly states that, their perceptions are being limited or restricted to what people think about them, and that's the reason people are not able to express themselves cause they are moreover in the thought of what will people say or talk about them. If start making progress expecting that people will appreciate you, you'll hurt yourself if they don't. Separate yourself from the pack to give yourself time, stop wasting it over with what people think about you.

It's our allowance that allows stuff to enter in. Anything that hurts cannot alter your life, untill and unless it's you who allows that pain to get into you and grow. Everything happening with you, might be blamed or dependent on someone else, but deep within you, know that every influence different things and people have on us, it's only our allowance to that particular influence which lets you be want to. Sometimes things can't be stopped and they are always there in the air to have an impact on you, you can't help it but you can definitely improve the situation by having a cool head. Allow right and abandon wrong.

Quality time for yourself is a necessity. Do what your brain likes, it will feel good. Do what you heart likes, it will feel good. Do what you want, you'll feel super good. But don't do the wrong things, they'll make you greedy for more. Making yourself happy by doing wrong may find you to be in a better place for that particular time, but long term results are what matter. In this busy world, as multiple things happen around us in a moment, it is very important to listen to your soul and talk to yourself. Sometimes you need expert advise, talk and talk more often to yourself, you'll get answers to all your questions and queries. Give importance, to all of them. Heart. Head. You.

Happiness can be anything, whether it is dependent on external or internal factors, but happiness caused by internal factors lasts longer and external factors. But the moment you convert those internal factors dependent happiness to external ones, you are most likely to get distressed with yourself as it won't last for long. Probably everyone in this world and wants appreciation, and that feeling something really good and everyone likes. And to stay happy you dont search for appreciation, you do something for happiness, something you want to achieve and that is what leads you to appreciation, not from everyone but definitely few, and it's just very important for you to be one of those few.

Everyone's got a goal, but many don't have a vision, don't worry as time moves by and you work towards, your vision will develope on its own. Vision might be blur but the goal is bright. We are trying to achieve something that is bright and quiet inportant to us, but the roadmap develops with a heart full of courage and vision will develop too, you need to keep working, even if they are small tiny steps. Bg saying, vision is blur, it actually means you can't see the roadmap, but you can certainly have a vision, by taking small steps everyday.  Believe and keep going.

Challenges are a sign that you are working hard and smart. Challenges ain't any problem, that's the first thing we need to understand, let's put it in this way with a positive mindset, what if you overcome the challenges and obstacles and you get what you want. Challenges are just delays which make you wait, and if you are being waited for too long enough remember that the thing coming is going to be much bigger and better. Challenges can appear in your life in any form, whether they are in the form of people or in the form of emotions. 1. Challenges in the form of people. Various people try to do what they want, and in some sense or the other they are a challenge for you, remember no person or thing is problem until you assume it to. People do their work, and we do ours, now if that person gets into competion with you, remeber you are not here to compete, you are here to make your own mark, accept the challenge in such a way that you just do things that are bet...

You gotta set some standards for yourself, you might not maintain the same throughout, but whatever happens if you fall or whether you rise, you only grow stronger day by day, dont assume yourself to be less than anyone, cause you are what makes yourself the real you. Nothing ever happens for the bad, cause goodness will always be round the corner to provide you something you want. There ain't any limits until you go on the wrong track, get your mind settled for the right things chasing wrong things will bring you more grief, it's your choice. We chase many things to satisfy our heart, and most of the things don't work out, the most important takeaway is to get stronger and tougher than what you are, don't stress out, believe in yourself, it just means so much when you'll get what you always wanted. Challenges challenge you, you challenge them back.

Criticising someone or any situation does not make you superior. Status quo, in terms of social issues, can influence people in two ways, either in good or bad, and various people have different opinions about each and everything, but take action only when your opinions are hard facts. Shooting in the dark can hit anything, be wise before your actions. You need to challenge status quo for the good, thinking about everyone and respecting their feelings. Sometimes we hurt people even when we don't want to, and the result of our one mistake can cause us a lot of problems. I always spoke about staying motivated, staying the real you and working towards your goal, forgetting that there is world ourside our own story, but it's now time to get into the world and getting socialized, and doing right for everyone, you don't live in this world alone, do something that even the people around you get influenced and are receivers of positive vibes. But remember, don't sho...

That's the attitude you need to have. Wake up everyday with the perception of you been written one day, it would just be something special. Every story starts with a perception of being someone. Everyone starts from no one to someone. That's just how things work out. Don't hurry up or hesitate to be someone, it's just about trusting in the long process of small steps. Keep patience, you won't realise its power now but definitely someday. Let the power of positivity, hope and faith come into you, which help you grow everyday. Keep working hard and smart, just don't give up.

What truly makes us sad or dissatisfied? Is it your heart or your head which answers you. Do you even need to be dissatisfied with a particular thing? You are alive, a person who can still respire and carry out all the biological actions, is capable of doing anything and nothing is impossible if you try with all your heart and soul, you might fall, but what if you make it? This is what I am trying to say. Negativity is the cause of your disappointments and dissatisfaction. The first question that arises in our head, is what if you fall? We hardly think, what if we make it. Negativity is the cause of negative vibes around you. Your nature or attitude is the cause for negative vibes entering your head. Talk to your heart, you'll have an honest answer. Is there really any need for presence for dissatisfaction in our lives, just a simple question, and believe me the answer is no. Everything bad or good is for your good, dissatisfactions are illusive. If you want to be happy...

Futurism is only beneficial when you are optimistic. Being optimistic, is tough. Optimism only welcomes you when you gotta life full of positivity, optimism asks you to have full faith and confidence in the future, do you have it? Ask yourself if you ain't got any fears, I don't expect the answer to be no, although even if your answer is no, this post is for those who answered yes. Negativity prevents you from being optimistic, so the firts step is let go of negative vibes and people who don't fit into your values. Second, Leaving no room for laziness and distractions take over you, just another source for negativity to flow into you. Third, surrounding yourself with a suitable environment, which allows you to grow, cherish and enjoy your time here on this planet. It's your choice. Futuristic or Optimistic.

No matter what you think, but the reality is that you only live in present not in your thoughts. It's a different case about turning thoughts in to reality, but that only happens when you start working on it. Thinking more and doing nothing is enough for you to let go of the reality. And when you think more you overthink. Over-thinking will silently kill you and just grow more and more the more you feed it. Even after this realisation we keep forgetting that thoughts are not reality, its only our imagination where things are being played around. But the play ground is where you are physically present. Negative vibes. The end product if over-thinking. You suffer more in your thoughts than your reality, and if you start suffering more in your thoughts how can you be able to work in the reality.

Humility is the quality of being modest, and humiliate is the feeling of ashame. Now let's read the quote again. Does it make sense? Being the follower of humility will destroy your ego, and most of the problems in your life are because of the ego you behold. Let go of ego, and make room for humility. When you let go of ego, getting humiliated doesn't even exist on the list. We mostly fear humiliation, thinking what will the people say if I do this? what will they think if I do this? The moment this questions are asked your confidence dies there itself. Live the way you want to, at the end of the day it's you living your life. Make humility your thing.

Let's start off with an American sociologist, Charles Cooley, he famously said "I am not what I think I am, I am not what you think I am, I am what I think you think I am". So basically the people around us, the people in various parts of the world are basically living in a perception of perception of ourselves. This might be a bit tricky, but give yourself some time to get that sentence broken down in your head. So where were we? Yep. We live in a perception of perception of ourselves. So what's basically happening is that our thoughts, our expectations, our actions are all overwhelmed by the perception of what others think about us. So what we exactly start to do is that we start trying to put ourselves into the boxes in which people find us to be. But simultaneously we are limiting ourselves to be the real us. Busy filling people's expectations we miss out on observing our purpose of life, we miss out on observing ourselves, and literally forget wha...

Soft skills. The way you communicate. They way socialize. The way you showcase yourself, that is your attitude, perception, personality, human traits, mindset, passion, desire, knowledge and the list just keeps going on. For most part of our lives, we did not even know what influence do they have, but they are just the things we need keep getting more and more developed. Your soft skills might change over some time, but they are going to stay with you forever, no matter what. When we say that we need to be the better versions of oursleves, this is the exact meaning, try to improve your soft skills day by day. Soft skills are something that you cannot imitate from your peers, it is something you have either inherited or acquired, people can takeaway many things from you, you might lose many things but at the end of the day what defines you is you yourself, your soft skills, people judge you on the basis of your soft skills. 

A person who can try and rise again never stops. We have heard "NEVER GIVE UP" probably for the most of our lives, and we just find it to be normal, essential to our daily life and essential towards our goal, and never really gave it much importance but do we actually or really try to install the "NEVER GIVE UP" folder in our system. You take a step forward, incase you aren't able to do it, you lose hope, but before that you lose senses, you lose those positive vibes, and the "NEVER GIVE UP" folder crashes. The crashing of the folder gives rise to all those negative vibes which are in some sense a virus to your system, if you aren't able to remove the virus, it will slowly and gradually take control, and positivity would be a mirage, in your life. Remember and tell yourself everyday when you wake up, that you are going to saty positive in each and every phase of your life. Every low you go through will teach you more and more. Learning ...

Be a tree. Wind plays a vital role in the growth of a tree. Here is what awesci.com says about importance of wind to a tree:- The presence of wind makes a tree stronger, it is thus able to mature and not fall down due to its own weight. When plants and trees grow in the wild, the wind constantly keeps them moving. This causes a stress in the wooden load bearing structure of the tree. Let the wind grow you. In this case wind can be anything according to an individual, whether it's people who don't suit to your nature or your values, or things which don't get along with you. Try your best to have a strong mindset, it's necessary so that you grow, once the wind hits you, cause if you got a weak mindset, wind is definitely going to blow you. Let's say even if you got a strong mindset, and the wind is still able to conquer you, but that strong mindset is going to help you aftermath. Stay rigid, have a strong mindset.